Term captures my lover’s current goal better than polyamory.

Nonmonogamy vs. monogamy and self-pity.

My lover and I talk about the possible effect of seeing other people would have on our relationship.

There are times when less immeadiate and direct forms of communication are best.

Is it possible for a monogamous person to adapt to polyamory?

Is it possible for a monogamous person to change their affectional orientation?

Theoretical consideration of BDSM experiences outside of my current romance.

How the mere prospect of polyamory seems to have shut me down sexually.

Uncertainty and doubt in thinking about the prospect of seeing other people for BDSM or erotic play.

Seeking emotional integration and clarity during a time of internal confusion and conflict.