Short note about myself. For friends only, no content for perverts, sorry.

Some nights being pansexual and having a mostly adaptive erotic orientation can actually be frustrating and confusing.

Why though I’m a pansexual polyfetishist I don’t have the emotional qualities - call it maturity - for polyamorous relationships.

Why kidnapping scenarios, even as fantasies squick me and scare me.

Femdom cultural studies: well, actually just another sample of my sexual psychohistorical self-exploration. Or verbal noodling.

Is this old courtesy title, term of respect usable as a word for addressing a female top? Is Ma’am too old fashioned, does it have inappropriate cultural associations?

One man explains the origins of his masochism and desire to be submissive.