Participants in discussions of BDSM often forget their hidden private assumptions and buried premises. This makes useful conversation about kink and fetish difficult.

Coping with being dominant and sadistic. Accepting your needs, maintaining the balance in your relationship.

D/s, kink, fetish, power exchange are about pleasure, fulfillment, finding happiness. Don’t let anyone turn your kink life into some sort of morality play or ethical trial.

BDSM friendships and romance require certain personal qualities whether dominant top or submissive bottom.

BDSM relationships and play require emotional honesty and clarity lest one get lost in stereotypes like service tops and unreal slaves.