Does power exchange, sadomasochism, kink and fetish define your life or are they just things that you do?

Ultimate emotional goal of most sadomasochistic fantasies, kinky dreams, BDSM wishes.

On the mutual cultivation of responsiveness in dominant and submissive persons.

The sexual psychology of sadomasochism is more subtle than many people seem to think.

Is seeing a disconnect between power exchange, sadomasochism and visible sexual response a failure of language, psychology or erotic empathy?

Fetish cultural studies: our different lifestyle referents and assumptions about words, labels and terms create barriers in the discussion, communication of atypical sexuality. Particularly how the visible portion of the kink community differs from the invisible majority.

Some claim you must be master, mistress, dominant, top or slave, submissive, bottom. That you can’t honestly and honorably mix the two power exchange orientations.

Are there any female tops whose dominance or sadism is stimulated by certain ordinary articles of attire on males?

Should intelligent people titles in D/s? Is there a way for men and women to eliminate self-consciousness about the foolishness of BDSM honorifics?

False stereotypes and bogus clichés in discourse in the subcultures associated with erotic female domination and male submission.